This post will not be for everyone....several of my posts lately have had that same effect....but it is well-meaning and as honest as I know how to be. I suppose you might call this my own credo of sexual conduct, my own look at what I like, what I offer and what I want. These are not set in stone and there is always crossover. But I feel reasonably confident here.
1. I treat a woman with respect first. Always first. Nothing can happen unless this is in play.
2. Her comfort level with me is always paramount. Once she knows she is in a good place, she can and just might offer you anything.
3. We need to understand each other in a open forum on everything....not just fucking.
4. I must be aware of what she is experiencing with me as much as humanly possible.
5. I want to improve my love and sex techniques as the opportunity will allow.
6. She has to tell me what she wants in some way on occasion. I gave up mindreading a long time ago.
7. Anticipating some of those needs is a slightly different creature. Many women have that traditional sense of desiring a man who can lead the way for a while.
8. We must be willing to try anything reasonable agreed upon in the bedroom and out of it.
9. If I want good, strong fucking, I need to be a strong example for her to respond to me. If I cannot for the moment, I need to say so....it really is a partnership, this sex thing.
10. Take it all as it comes. Planning the moment is great; being IN the moment itself takes patience and improvisation. Not every woman can suck my cock in the way I like unless I can tell her how I do like it. Conversely, if she likes it rough and I'm being too gentle, she needs to feel the freedom to tell me so.
11. Good women in this realm need to be cultivated. There aren't many, and the prize of it all will reward you forever. Again, if she knows that you have her best interests at heart, you can be her master, her partner, whatever you both enjoy...and vice versa.
12. I want to be able to say what I want to say in bed and know that it will be taken in the fun, lustful way it is meant. Words are just that.....words. It's the intent behind them that is much more important. A great little slut or whore or hot bitch is one of the highest compliments I can give you when my sword is drawn. Language is a vastly underrated part of the sexual realm.
A start. But a good one, I think. I will add to and refine these as time goes by.
11 comments:
You should mass distribute these, seriously. :)
Yep, gotta have rules or there's nothing to play by...if you know what I mean... ;)
Talking about everything is definitely on my list.
Aiko's got it right, you definitely need to get these out to the masses!
Hey sweetie, just realised you were actually back! For some reason, you dissapeared off my bloglines!!!
yeah thats true, it'll be really gud if this gets distributed more....
Where have you been all of my life?
XX
A god among mere mortals...as usual.
;-)
XOXOXO
Ladies, talk to me...is it really that bad? I honestly don't know, and I believe that I'm a pretty knowledgeable person.
all are excellent.
this is the biggest one I want though
4. I must be aware of what she is experiencing with me as much as humanly possible.
If I don't feel like shes is having a top 5 experience then I can't be satisfied with the encounter.
ron, I want to be able to say it how it is, I want to be called a slut and a whore when I'm fucking.
I want it rough (ish) I want it gentle. i want it so my whole mind and body becomes the fuck and i lose myself in an existensilist expereince. I want it so fast in that we race to be first to cum. I want to take hours and hours, to stop and drink chamapgne and have a picnic in bed of food that we feed each other before fucking some more. I want it outside, in bed, on the couch, in the tub.
And all of these and all the other things that make up a great relationship can only happen when two people trust and respect each other. And that's what i want more than the rest.Oh yeah and enough money for the plane flight!!!
xx
Yes you do seem to have a good hold on what ppl should learn...that is a great concept for sure--Lollie
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