I have always enjoyed mutual masturbation as one of my favorite things with a woman. And the more erotic thing to me is to include sharing what has happened during the day...or talking about what's on our minds...or anything that will allow the conversation to treat the fun and eventual orgasm into the daily routine. Since no one really does that, let me share here a moment with my old friend "Katie".
We lived together for about three years. Her family and I are still very close. Sexy, loving, fun African-American girl about 15 years younger than me. One particular evening, in our sexplay, we found our sexual selves facing each other, lying down on the floor, music playing quietly. We had just had dinner and had decided to get off on each other. But we both at the time had killer schedules and as much as we wanted to fuck, we ended up straddling each other, legs entwined on the floor. I was stroking my cock all lubed up, and Katie was rubbing her thick clit with her right hand. We were talking easily about life and our days. Can't remember quite what had happened, but suddenly watching each other get hot, we kept talking....
"So you drove to the club?"
"Yes, and it took forever...the fucking traffic..." She's breathing hard and beginning to fuck herself with two fingers. I poured more lube on and stroked myself a little faster.
"Did Dan finally get there?"
"Yes, after nearly a half hour....fucker...(labored breathing now)...I mean...if I can....get there... through all....the damned tr....traffic downtown...so can...He-e-e-e..." Katie is feeling pretty hot and close to orgasm.
"I had thesammmmme.....same problem getting to ....the theatrrreee....." I'm stroking hard now. Our eyes are absolutely locked and showing each other our heat.
Finally -- I'll never forget this -- Katie start ramming three fingers into her juicy cunt...."He-e-e-sss-just-a-a-a-amotheerrrrr-fucckerrrr.....OH MY GOD!!!!!" And Katie starts cumming hard and jerking that cum out of her body, eyes still locked in mine. And I started my own orgasm right then...shooting my cum all over the floor, her legs, my legs....and it was intense and really hard for both of us. I felt a tear moving down my cheek; I needed the cum that much.
We lay there, legs still wrapped in each other, lying back in recovery...."Jesus, Ron, where the hell did that come from???" I laughed in my own breathless way. Katie got up and went for a warm, wet washcloth and gently cleaned and licked me up. We finished our wine and went to bed.
Never been able to quite repeat that experience, but it turned me into a huge believer into incorporating sex into the list of the day, just like lunch or following a schedule or whatever. A release and an energy boost in a short period of time. The fun was watching each other slowly get to the release, keeping your eyes focused on each other. I wholeheartedly recommend it, friends. The hard part is forcing yourself to continue the conversation until you orgasm. But damn, it's fun getting there....
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I love this! And I have oh so much I want to "talk" to you about Ron...got time?
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I like this concept. However, for me, the mind and the body are so directly connected in this regard that I can't talk about normal stuff and still be able to reach climax at the same time. I wish I could. But my mind has to be thinking sex for this to happen. I enjoyed reading about your experience here though. Because see, if I read about sex, then I start thinking about sex, and then I can actually... well, you get the idea. :)
Secret -- Anytime, honeyb...what's on your mind?...:)
Fex -- Understood. It was something I simply learned about myself. Maybe it's easy because I DO think about sex...a lot...:)
that was too funny. but i agree with fex - i doubt i could do it without switching into sex talk. of course, the philosopher and i have gotten to the point where talking about my scrubbing the floor (a very rare occurrence) or making him a cup of tea (a ritual event) becomes laden with sexual overtones AND undertones, so the tone of the conversation mutates and i start floating away...
i couldnt do it. i get easily distracted. i love hearing my man talk to me while i masturbate for him, but i rather hear that he wants my pussy to cum for him than about the traffic he was stuck in that day.
I love this. What a way to unwind! Usually I need to be talking about sex too but there are times when he's just going on about his day over the phone and my hand drifts to my panties anyway. Just trying to carry on a normal conversation is half of the turn on :)
I'm thinking it's not what you are saying but the emotion behind the words and the passion in your eyes. Like when you talk to a dog, you can say the most wretched things but if you voice and eyes are filled with love, the dog responds in kind.
No matter what you were talking about, your lust for each other came through.
Now you have me wondering if it will work while venting about the crap going on in one's life.
OG -- I totally understand...it is an acquired skill for folks...But once you do, sex can literally happen anytime for any reason...:)
Pitseleh -- lol...I get that. I share it as a left turn to get to the same place, know what I mean? It's not everyone's cup of tea...:)
Distracted -- That's it, honey! That's precisely it...you'd be someone fun to talk with..:)
Nitebyrd -- It certainly couldn't hurt, I can tell you...:)
Interesting idea. It's not uncommon for me to start touching myself when talking to P on the phone, regardless of his subject matter. (I've often told him he could read Dr. Suess and I'd get off on it!) It's his voice that does it for me, the cadence of his conversation. But I'd really have to concentrate to carry on a normal conversation. I'm just too easily distracted!
I'd certainly be willing to try though!
Akrazael -- There you go! That's the way I like my women...willing to try...:)
Okay, this is going on my Things To Do list, when my boyfriend is in town next week. I'm all flushed just thinking about it! We'll see if it works for us....achieving orgasm takes a lot of concentration for each of us. It'll be a good time finding out, though!
btw -- love your blog. will link to it.
;o) BJ
I agree with you soooo much. You have to try this. It is the biggest turn-on! It was a wonderful read!
Love this! I've always liked the idea, but have never actually done it. Need to put it on my to-do list . . .
BJ -- Thank you...keep reading and keep your mind open...:)
Sweetie -- Hell, yes, young lady, show me. Tell me. Do me NOW!
Riffdog -- Thanks for checking me out. We do it wide open here at my place...
Wow! That was fantastic! I would love to be able to do that but I don't think I could keep myself from wanting to turn it entirely sexual. In some ways it is so much more exciting that you were able to keep the conversation going as you both stimiluated yourselves. I absolutely love that.
Cate xxx
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