Ideals

Just for fun...I offer the question: Would you describe your ideal sex partner? And in fairness to all, I will do just that for you...with a couple of codicils. I've discovered in my own life that the ideal changes from time to time, with one consistent view: she needs to be able and willing to try and accept and adjust to as much, as many, as varied a sexual viewpoint, position, experience as a person can do. Other than that, she can be whatever she wants or needs to be....In fact, let me share with you a description of some of the women in my life with whom I have had some kind of extended intimate relationship. I've had many single or weeklong trysts with women, so I don't include those in what you are about to read.

"Danielle", the woman I married way back in the late 70s had a great body. Slim, in shape, perky breasts and a pageboy haircut that made her comfortable. Her problem was that she was so afraid of sexual experimentation that for her, a really kinky thing to do was for me to go down on her. I became a teacher for her in this regard and, even though we divorced after eight years, I know her second husband benefited from her intimacy with me far more than he would have, had they met earlier.

"Jeanne", my first and only real romance from show business, was extremely talented and wanting to please. Another slim, leggy woman with smooth skin and lovely facial features. She was very inexperienced and again learned a great deal from our trysts... including being caught by the local police au natural with me in the high school parking lot (the stock theatre was in a small town in Indiana). She was mortified and didn't pursue the fun with me for the rest of that second summer.

"Katie" was a gorgeous, voluptuous black woman who met my needs perfectly, as I did for her. Thick black hair and breasts to graze on for hours. She was also nearly four inches taller than me. She had the "let's-dive-in" attitude that I dearly love in all people. This was, however, a case of age difference being a catalyst for change (we were 15 years apart, and she had lots of life she wanted to still experience). One of the great fucks of my life for nearly four years. We are still great friends; she now lives in the Big Apple, chasing her dream of being a singer. I'd still fuck her in a heartbeat.

"Anne" was my intellectual equal with an athletic body and Puritanical sexual views. We also lived together four years until her consistency of sexual deprivation (it all had to be her way or no way), coupled with the inevitable growing apart, had us separated both sexually and emotionally. But again, I maintain a solid friendship, as I have with nearly all the women I've know.

Now...here's the physical ideal I want.

I'm 5'7" and love women of all height and weight, so long as care is taken in health and attitude. But for the ideal, I admit to her being around 5'2-5'4. I love breasts -- real breasts with no augmentation, but I would never put any woman down for doing so. Somewhere around 120-130 pounds, so I want her to be physically strong. Love hair of any color, so long as she enjoys me to yank and grab when I want. I am a bit of a stronger partner in bed, so I would want her to be fairly malleable. Very few kinks are unexplored. No jealousy exists between us whatever...she is encouraged to be and chase as many and as much of her desires as she likes, so long as we wake up together, we go to bed together, and we talk about any and all things with open communication. I love a dirty mouth and lots of noise in the bedroom. I love seeing and watching her in the throes of sexual bliss. And she is just as proud to be seen in my presence as I am for her.

Somewhere along the way, this does exists. There are a couple of you out here, friends, who come to the torchlight that I would deeply appreciate experiencing in this regard.

Starting with........:)