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Monday, July 6, 2009

Wanted: Free and Open Thinker


Okay, friends. Here I am. This is one of my professional headshots, a little more than a year old; I look the same, I promise....Now...I'm gonna try something here that may never have been tried. This is partially tongue-in-cheek, but I'm also interested in who...if any at all...might respond. And it's in response to a challenge from a blogger friend who needs a lesson learned...


SOMEONE TO OPEN THE DOORS ONCE MORE...


55 years old. Shaven head, warm Irish demeanor. Free, open thinker. Stocky, strong of build. 5'7" and around 180 lbs or so, so not too much work to get back in shape...and working on it daily. Articulate, expressive, emotional. Calm, supportive, savvy. Loves to be bold and brave in all things; willing to take risks to improve the dealt hand. Lives in Chicago, where his work as an actor is still available, if not exactly plentiful. Loves people, animals, vegetables, minerals. Sports, music (a singer, to boot), movies (actually been in one film), loves to cook...read/write voraciously. Still very ambitious and owns a younger, more energized, more loving spirit. Deeply enjoys sitting in a saloon with a woman, bending an elbow, talking about life, mentioning who we'd fuck as they come through the door...


LOOKING FOR...


Friend/partner in life and love. Age is no matter, although I would dearly love someone who has some interest in my own frame of reference, if not close in age. Takes care of herself (body, mind, spirit). Has her own ambitions, opinions on issues. Still enjoys letting it all loose once in a great while. Sexually open and exploring (and yes, that means exactly what you think it means) and willing to COMMUNICATE and TRUST...my own little relationship mantra. Must be experienced in the ways, the intents and the risks of love and sex (I don't want to be a teacher here). Still dreams of her own nirvana, her own ultimates. Knows how to share and when to keep herself FOR herself. Above all, she 'gets' me and/or is willing to learn said 'getting'. Must live within 200 miles of Chicago...or is willing to travel...a great way to take that first 'risk' with me. You will never be bored...If I can't get it or do it, we'll find someone who can or will. I ask only that you try...we wake up together, we go to bed together (even when we're apart)...all else is the open canvas for creation.

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Now that I have satisfied this fellow blogger on a dare, I do wonder who and what kind of woman might actually find mileage in such courage...Oh...and most of all....If you look at this man here and find him not your preference, fine. Just don't laugh and point...I've endured enough of that kind of 'humor' in life. Hopefully, you would enjoy the man here for his honesty, his continuing search in life, and his incorruptible charm...:)

13 comments:

Distracted said...

You continue to amaze me, Ron. No, that's not completely right. I am not all surprised by your bravery at opening the door wide open. You are the most honest, open person I have met. I applaud you!!
ps. what film? tell, tell!

Debbie said...

Good for you.....your honesty will be rewarded with that perfect lady soon...We will all be thinking good thoughts for you in your endeavor......and I agree with distracted...What film???

A. Secret said...

Perfect. Handsome. Sexy. Love it.

Mmmm hmmm.

Check. Check. Check.

Mmmm hmmm.

Fuck! 200 miles?!?
XX

Ronjazz said...

D -- Just showing someone that you can, indeed, put yourself out there without problem. Or be willing to endure some that might occur.

FW -- You're too kind.

AS -- For you, of course, it should have been 2000 miles...But I hold little hope that you might actually call me on it. You have suitors a mile long...:)

Aurore said...

This is a brilliant piece of writing that describes an equally brilliant man - what's not to love here?

:)

Ronjazz said...

Aurore -- You jumped several rungs of the ladder with your support here, honey. I look forward to getting to know you better!

Glitterstim said...

I really do love how you lay it all out there, Ron. You're very "what you see is what you get," in a wonderfully unapologetic way. If someone doesn't like it, it's their loss. I wish more people were the same way.

Gotta love ya! Take care!

:o) BJ

trinity pup said...

If only i was a little older... ;-)

What a fab photo :-)

t. x

Fire Byrd said...

well there as you've said before my inability to swim oceans here.... but.....
you know!
and you owe me an email!
xx

nitebyrd said...

I must find a way to lessen the distance between us.

Helen said...

Soooo...you're putting this up on OKCupid, yes?

Anonymous said...

Kudos to you for being honest and forthright here!

You seem creative, imaginative with much to offer. I could easily sit there...analyzing and talking about who we'd fuck coming through the door baby!

I consider it lucky to call you "friend."

xoxo

Ronjazz said...

BJ -- YOU, my dear, are much too kind.

Pup -- We also have that damned ocean in the way. But you never know...

Firebyrd -- I owe you a lot more than an e-mail, honey...:)

Nitebyrd -- Talk to me anytime...

Helen -- HOW ARE YOU?? I've missed your gift of gab... And you need to tell me about OKCupid...I don't know it...

SG -- It does seem that the sympatico hit for us pretty quickly, didn't it?